CAREjourney Blog http://blog.carejourney.com Just another WordPress site Thu, 09 Jun 2011 18:58:29 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Looking into the Eyes of a Loved One http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/05/10/looking-into-the-eyes-of-a-loved-one/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/05/10/looking-into-the-eyes-of-a-loved-one/#comments Tue, 10 May 2011 21:48:00 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=15 I’ll be honest…I really struggled writing this particular blog post. As a family caregiver, I am constantly finding solutions and fixes to challenging caregiving situations. Over the past six months, I have been caring for my human family members, in addition to my four-legged furry loved ones.

Approximately a week ago, our family had a tough decision. After many months, our aging 13-year old beautiful black lab’s quality of life had diminished. We had to weigh our options and do what was best for her. But, last Monday morning, I looked in her eyes and I saw a tear stream down her nose. She saw me. She heard me. She responded to me. I knew and accepted it was time.

She is now at peace. As we grieve and treasure our family memories, I recall geriatric care manager Kay Paggi’s blog post entitled Waiting for Death. Kay was faced with similar circumstances…

None of us leave this life alive; we all experience death. I am frustrated when I read an article about how a medical intervention “saves lives.” No intervention yet has saved anyone from dying; we all die. What medical interventions do is postpone death.

The process of dying differs from person to person. Most people want death to be as painless as possible, and their loved ones and caregivers do everything in their power to make it so. Knowing someone you love is dying is intensely frustrating. That is probably why so few people enroll in a hospice program. It may be comforting to the doctor and the family to feel like they are doing something, even if futile, to prevent (postpone) the dying.

My dog is 14 years old. In people time, she is about 100. She doesn’t see well, she doesn’t hear well, she doesn’t move around well. In the past 2 weeks, she has pretty much stopped eating and developed a limp; she moans when I pick her up. I know what is coming. I am a geriatric care manager. My clients are old, and I have been with them as they died. I know what is happening to them is happening to her. But knowing is different from experiencing it firsthand, around the clock, with a loved one, even a dog.

Against my own professional advice, I took my dog to the vet. I know there is nothing to be done. But I was hoping for a reprieve, a magic pill that would give me another few months with my furry friend. The vet, like most doctors, rose to the request for help. She started the dog on antibiotics, saying, “This dog is old; she probably has an infection somewhere.” She gave me appetite stimulant pills, pain pills, and steroids. All of these had to be forced down the poor dog’s throat, as she struggled against this invasion of her body. In spite of my best efforts, she refuses ice cream, turkey, baby food. The body shuts down as it dies, and she is not hungry. Eating, and the antibiotics, give her diarrhea.

I have made my peace. The medical interventions are gone. I cuddle her, I tell her I love her, I carry her outside and wash soiled towels. And I wait. Waiting for death is intensely frustrating and sad and necessary and loving.

Having experienced hospice, and the peace it brings to the dying loved one and family members, I knew we were making the most humane and best decision for our beloved four-legged family member. As Kay says, “…knowing is different from experiencing it firsthand, around the clock, with a loved one, even a dog.” Dealing with death is always challenging. For me, as a family caregiver, when I have been faced with options, it is a process. But when I listen and look deep into my loved one’s eyes (even a family pet), I see answers.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

 

About Kay Paggi

Kay Paggi is a private practice geriatric care manager based in the Dallas, TX area.  She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Care Manager, and the only National Certified Gerontological Counselor located in the north Texas area.  She  has been active in eldercare consulting since 1994.  In addition, since 1993  she has been a certified Mediator and recently achieved certification as an ElderCare Mediator.  www.KayPaggi.com.

About Staci Witten

Staci Witten is the President of CAREjourney.com.  She is the former owner of a successful licensed home care company as well as a family caregiver.  After working with many family caregivers and aging parents, she wanted to reach more people and help them find quality care for loved ones.  Thus, CAREjourney  was founded to help match quality caregivers with those seeking care based upon needs, interests and personality. www.CAREjourney.com

]]> http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/05/10/looking-into-the-eyes-of-a-loved-one/feed/ 0 Caregiving and National Women’s Eye Health and Safety Month – Part 2 http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/04/25/caregiving-and-national-womens-eye-health-and-safety-month-part-2/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/04/25/caregiving-and-national-womens-eye-health-and-safety-month-part-2/#comments Mon, 25 Apr 2011 06:00:21 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=16 Last week in the CAREjourney Blog, Caregiving and National Women’s Eye Health and Safety Month Part 1, we shared information about vision impairment and the different types of vision loss.  This week, we want to share more eye health and safety tips, especially for aging loved ones.  However, you will find that some of these tips will apply to the caregiver.

Here are a few suggestions in caring for eyesight and overall health.

Visit an eye doctor regularly. It’s important to have an eye exam at least once every other year.  If you have pre-existing conditions, such as diabetes, you may need to go more often.  Even if you don’t think you need to go or you are not experiencing symptoms, it is still necessary. Your eye doctor may be able to prevent or detect early signs of diseases.  Eye doctors can treat common eye problems and keep your contact or glasses prescription up-to-date and check for various eye diseases.  Regular visits can help protect your vision and prevent future complications.

Make changes to help yourself see well. For instance, wear sunglasses and a brimmed hat to protect your eyes from bright sunlight.  Improve the lighting in your home.  Add night lights and hallway lighting.  When working outside, around your home, or playing sports, you should wear safety eyewear.

Take care of yourself. You can lower your risk of eye disease and vision loss by eating healthy foods; staying active; controlling your blood pressure, diabetes, cholesterol levels or other health problems.  And, quit smoking.  You should also follow your doctor’s recommendations for medications and lifestyle.

Be aware of surroundings. For instance, obstacles such as items on the floor, rugs, or furniture in pathways may need to be removed or adjusted.  If you or your loved one’s peripheral vision is impaired, some of these items may create a fall risk.

You may be a family caregiver or perhaps you are receiving care or providing care.  In any situation, eye health is important for everyone.  Become more aware about eye health and vision impairment so you may be able to prevent future challenges.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

Source:  http://www.preventblindness.org/

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Eye health is a regular topic of discussion in our family.  My grandmother, mother, and husband all have vision challenges.  From cataracts to retinopathy and retinal tears, we have seen many eye doctors and surgeons. As a family caregiver, it takes patience, time, and knowledge to care for someone with vision challenges.

You may be caring for aging parent with vision impairment.  Or, your caregiver job may require you to care for someone with blindness.  As a caregiver, you may have vision challenges.  Regardless of your situation, vision impairment is an issue.

There are various causes of vision loss.  Some include:

  • Age-related macular degeneration
  • Autoimmune disease
  • Cataract
  • Diabetic retinopathy
  • Dry eye
  • Glaucoma
  • Toxoplasmosis
  • Trachoma & other infectious diseases
  • Uncorrected refractive error
  • Nearsightedness
  • Retinal tears and detachments
  • Retinitis pigmentosa
  • Retinopathy of prematurity
  • Strabismus
  • Uvetis

Based upon Prevent Blindness America (www.preventblindness.org) signs of eye problems in adults may include:

  • Changes in the appearance of your eyes or vision such as unusual trouble adjusting to dark rooms; difficulty focusing on near or distant objects; squinting or blinking due to unusual sensitivity to light or glare; change in color of iris; re-rimmed, encrusted or swollen lids; recurrent pain in or around eyes; double vision; dark spot at the center of viewing; lines and edges appear distorted or wavy; excess tearing or watery eyes; dry eyes with itching or burning; and seeing spots or ghost like images.
  • More serious problems that may require emergency medical attention such as sudden vision loss in one eye; sudden hazy or blurred vision; flashes of light or black spots; halos or rainbows around light; curtain-like blotting out vision; and loss of peripheral vision.

Regular eye exams are important.  But, when you have any unusual vision symptoms, you should see an eye doctor for a complete exam.  In addition, if you have chronic health conditions such as diabetes or high blood pressure, regular eye exams are a must.  Early detection and treatment may save your eyesight.  Take time to learn more about eye health.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

Sources: http://www.womenseyehealth.org/ , http://www.preventblindness.org/

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After last week’s CAREjourney’s blog posting and the Alzheimer’s Association release of 2011 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures, CAREjourney has seen several discussions and questions from dementia caregivers.  Many of the questions are answered in the report, but we thought we would share some of the information on our blog.

The Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures report stated that 1 in 8 Americans have Alzheimer’s disease or other dementia.  You may be a family caregiver caring for an aging parent, or perhaps you have a caregiver job.  Regardless, this statistic is startling.

Based upon some of the feedback we have seen, there is a perception that dementia and Alzheimer’s is the same disease.  But, it is important to understand that dementia is actually a symptom of Alzheimer’s.  It is a symptom that affects several diseases.  By definition, dementia is a progressive neurological, cognitive, or medical disorder that affects memory, judgment, and cognitive powers.  If you are a dementia caregiver, you are familiar with this symptom.  It is caused by various diseases and conditions that result in damaged brain cells or connections between brain cells.

There are several common types of dementia.  We will share the five most common, based upon the 2011 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figuresresults.

Alzheimer’s Disease – This is the most common type of dementia and accounts for 60 to 80 percent of the cases.  Some symptoms may include difficulty remembering names and recent events; apathy and depression are often early symptoms.  Later symptoms may include impaired judgment, disorientation, confusion, behavior changes and difficulty speaking, swallowing, and walking.

Vascular dementia—(Also known as multi-infarct or post-stroke dementia or vascular cognitive impairment) – This dementia is considered the second most common type of dementia. Impairment is caused by decreased blood flow to parts of the brain, often due to a series of small strokes that block arteries.  The symptoms often overlap those of Alzheimer’s. However, the memory may not be as significantly affected as much as Alzheimer’s .

Mixed dementia – This type of dementia is characterized by abnormalities of Alzheimer’s and another type of dementia — most commonly vascular dementia.  Recent studies show that mixed dementia is more common than previously thought.

Dementia with Lewy bodies – This dementia’s pattern of decline may be similar to Alzheimer’s including problem with memory and judgment in addition to behavior changes.  Alertness and severity of cognitive symptoms may fluctuate daily.  Visual hallucinations, muscle rigidity and tremors are common in this type of dementia.

Parkinson’s disease – This disorder usually involves movement problems but also develops dementia in the later stages of the disease.

There are several other types of dementia.  Some of those can be found in the2011 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures at www.alz.org.   If you or a loved one is experiencing any signs of dementia, it is very important to discuss your concerns with your doctor.  As you review the report’s findings, you will see that you may have options in delaying some other symptoms or progressions of diseases.

Please send us your questions or discussion suggestions atfeedback@carejourney.com and add “Cj Blog” to your subject.  You can also share your comments on our Facebook Fan Page.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

 

*Source – www.Alz.org 2011 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures

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• 5.4 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s disease.

• 1 in 8 Americans have Alzheimer’s disease or other dementia.

• Nearly 15 million Americans provide unpaid care for a person with Alzheimer’s disease or another dementia.

• 80% of care provided at home is delivered by family caregivers.

• 61% of the family caregivers reported high levels of emotional stress and approximately 33 % of the family caregivers reported depression symptoms.

• Alzheimer’s disease is the 6th leading cause of death in the United States.

The report confirms Alzheimer’s disease is a debilitating illness that affects the dementia patient and the family caregiver. A cure is needed in order to save patients’ lives or at least significantly prolong the symptoms onset. But, what about the 15 million people providing unpaid care for those with Alzheimer’s or dementia?

These statistics prove more than ever that the family caregiver needs assistance. At a minimum, respite care or temporary relief is needed. The day-to-day stress is weighing physically and mentally on the family caregiver. Hiring a caregiver for temporary or ongoing assistance would give the family caregiver an opportunity to take a break, go to work, run errands, or work out. Getting away from the high stress situation, even if for a short period of time, will help the family caregiver’s well being in the long term.

If finances do not allow for a temporary or ongoing scheduled break, then consider asking a friend or family member for assistance. Another option is financial assistance. Several not-for-profit organizations have grants that are specifically for respite care. For those whose loved one is a US Military Veteran and needs caregiving services, contact the local county Veteran’s office and see if any benefits are available for cargiving assistance with activities daily living.

The Alzheimer’s Association published their report to build awareness, provide education, and to help find a cure. Bringing attention to the family caregiver will help agencies and the medical community realize how much the disease will both directly and indirectly impact our society, medical care, and insurance companies. A cure for the disease is needed, but until then, our family caregivers need help.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

]]> http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/03/21/family-caregivers-need-a-break/feed/ 0 A CAREjourney Video Tour http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/03/18/a-carejourney-video-tour/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/03/18/a-carejourney-video-tour/#comments Fri, 18 Mar 2011 14:14:00 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=36 In order to assist CAREjourney’s CAREguest, we are providing this video that explains more about the site.  Basically, you can see an overview of CAREjourney.com’s many features.

Learn how CAREjourney® can help find caregivers and help with aging parents. This video introduces care providers to CAREjourney.com and how you can find a caregiver job. CAREjourney.com is an online community where those seeking care for aging parents, disabled or sick loved ones, will find caregivers and caregiving services. If you are a care provider, you can provide information and find caregiver jobs. Similar to a dating service, enter your information about personality, interests, and needs on the secure site and the CAREmatch Engine will find CAREmatches. Through forums and blogs, CAREjourney® offers support to family caregivers and those who have or seeking home caregiver jobs.

Please watch the video, then browse around the site.  Let us know if you have questions by emailing us at info@carejourney.com.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

]]> http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/03/18/a-carejourney-video-tour/feed/ 0 Building Your Care Team http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/02/02/building-your-care-team/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/02/02/building-your-care-team/#comments Wed, 02 Feb 2011 12:00:29 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=39 Having worked with many family caregivers who want to help their loved ones stay independent and in their home as long as possible, I noticed they share the commonality of significant stress. Family caregivers are trying to respect the wishes of their loved ones while keeping them safe and physically and mentally healthy as possible. Time is limited because the family caregivers are working, managing their households, and now their parents’ households. They feel alone as they are concerned about their aging loved one. Often they lose hope as their lives are put on hold while mom and dad age. Does this sound familiar? If so, know that there is hope. You don’t have to do this alone. Build a Care Team by surrounding you and your loved one with professionals and advocates.

Depending on your loved one’s physical and emotional state, your Care Team will consist of several players. For instance, if you are trying to keep your parents at home and independent as long as possible, you may lead and build a care team consisting of doctors, home health, homecare, and family and friends. Keep in mind you may add different professionals. Your team players are based upon your loved one’s conditions, needs, and your situation.

As you build your team, consider several things including the Care Team member:

Provides expertise in the specified area.
Instills dignity and treats with your loved one with respect.
Serves as your loved one’s advocate.
Gives you and your loved one peace of mind
Maintains and/or enhances your loved one’s quality of life.

Each member of your team provides a specific role that will help you and your loved one. Briefly, let’s explore why doctors, home health, homecare, and family and friends may be key players as you lead your Care Team. We will explore each of these roles in more detail over the next several blogs.

Doctors – When you share details of concern with a doctor, even if you think it is irrelevant, you help the doctor treat your loved one. For instance, mom has stopped going to church and playing bridge with her friends. She says she isn’t hungry and she refuses to eat. The doctor may ask more questions, diagnose depression, and prescribe an antidepressant. After several weeks of treatment, you may notice a happier mom. Communicate information thoroughly.

Home Health Agency – For many reasons, a doctor may prescribe home health therapy. For instance, an aging parent is weak; going home after a hospital stay; or experiencing frequent falls. When home health is prescribed, an agency nurse will do an assessment and may make scheduled visits to check vital signs. Physical, occupational, or other types of therapy may be scheduled several times per week. Instruction and exercises will be given by the therapist. It is very important that the patient follows instruction and performs exercises daily, even on the days the therapist does not visit. Often, an agency home health aide will be scheduled to assist in bathing, washing hair and dressing. The home health agency team should work towards building as much independence as possible for your loved one. If qualified and prescribed, home health may be covered by insurance and Medicare.

Homecare – Hiring a homecare agency or caregiver can be a saving grace. There are two types of homecare: personal and companion. Personal care is hands-on care including bathing, dressing, and grooming. Transferring, such as helping someone out of the car, chair, or bed is also personal care. Typically, a caregiver has had specific training in these areas. Companion care is running errands, household chores, or spending time you’re your aging loved one. In most states, agencies must be licensed to provide caregiving. You may also hire a private caregiver. Quality caregiving will help you keep your aging parent safe and save you time. Caregiving is private pay. Some long term care insurance policies cover this expense; whereas, Medicare and medical insurance do not cover this type of expense.

Family and Friends – Often, people will let you know they are happy to help if you need anything. A typical response is to say thanks, and never take them up on the offer. If someone is serious about the offer, make a list of different tasks that can be delegated. For instance, ask your friend to pick up your child after school while you take mom to the doctor. The truth is, you would probably do the same for that friend if the situation was reversed. A friend or family member can also provide respite care or give you a break. A visit from a family friend may be welcomed treat for your loved one. Utilize these opportunities.

Always keep in mind you are not alone in this situation and there is hope. Hire a caregiver or ask a friend to help so you can make some time for yourself. You have to remember to take care of yourself so you can be there for you loved one and your family. In Care Journey’s next blog, we will explore helpful hints when working with your Care Team doctor. Email us if you have more ideas: Staci@CAREjourney.com.

Your CAREjourney guide,

Staci Witten

www.CAREjourney.com

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During this beta launch, if you should have questions, comments or suggestions, please email us at feedback@carejourney.com. We value your input.

Needing Care?

If you are seeking care for yourself or a loved one, take advantage of this opportunity for a FREE 3-month subscription (a $45.98 value). If you are caring for a loved one and you looking for ideas or suggestions, be sure to visit the Care Receiver Blog after you join. As a member, you can also participate in our forums by venting about challenges or sharing ideas with others in the CAREjourney community that experience similar issues.

If you are seeking care for yourself or a loved one, here is what you need to do.

Begin your registration by clicking here.
Complete the information and confirm your password.
Log in and purchase membership.
Enter the promo code 122210free90 and you will receive a FREE 3 month membership.

After becoming a member, complete the assessment, review CareGiver matches, and start interviewing . You may or may not need care right now. Regardless, you can review and comment on the blogs and participate in the forums.

Providing Care?

If you are a CareGiver, providing care to those who need assistance, here is what you need to do:

Begin your registration by clicking here.
Complete the information and confirm your password.
Log in and complete your assessment!

Once you are a member, you can participate in the blog comments and community forums. In addition, you can start getting matched to those who need your services.

Thank you for allowing us to be part of your CAREjourney. We look forward to your feedback and seeing you in the CAREjourney Community!

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

]]> http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2011/01/04/carejourney-com-launches-to-care-receivers/feed/ 0 Family CareGiving: Time Savers During the Holidays http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2010/12/15/family-caregiving-time-savers-during-the-holidays/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2010/12/15/family-caregiving-time-savers-during-the-holidays/#comments Wed, 15 Dec 2010 16:29:21 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=43 The holidays are here! As a family caregiver, our “to do” lists are long. Looking for ideas on how to save time as you care for your loved ones and try to enjoy the holidays? Here are a few ideas:

  • Presents to wrap? Pull out the gifts, paper, tape and other supplies and ask your loved one for help. We care for my mother-in-law. She saves me time by wrapping my presents. It’s also a creative outlet!
  • Feasts to prepare? I have started delegating many of our holiday traditional dishes. My mom’s pies are the best, so she takes care of dessert. My mother-in-law has a cranberry salad family recipe and as long as she is well enough to make it, I can count on her to fix it.
  • Shopping to do? Shopping can be an enjoyable activity. But, during the holidays time is of the essence. I have found ordering online is the most efficient way to shop during the holidays.
  • House to clean? Unfortunately, this is not my forte’. For us, we pitch in as a family and get the house cleaned and ready for guests.

Share your holiday time saving ideas on the CAREjourney.com’s Facebook Fan Page.

From the CAREjourney Family, Happy Holidays!

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

]]> http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2010/12/15/family-caregiving-time-savers-during-the-holidays/feed/ 0 National Family Caregiver Month http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2010/11/15/national-family-caregiver-month/ http://blog.carejourney.com/blog/2010/11/15/national-family-caregiver-month/#comments Mon, 15 Nov 2010 14:17:59 +0000 Staci http://blog.carejourney.com/?p=46 The National Family Caregivers Association (NFCA) builds awareness and advocates for caregivers.  They recognize November as National Family Caregiver Month.  As a family caregiver, I appreciate the support, education, and advocacy NFCA is providing.

What ideas do you have to build awareness about family caregiving?  What suggestions do you have for our government concerning support, healthcare, and well-being for our loved ones and us as caregivers?  What recommendations do you have for others who experience the challenges of caregiving?

Share your ideas on the CAREjourney.com Facebook Fan Page.  For more information about NCFA, visit their website at www.thefamilycaregiver.org.

Your CAREjourney Guide,

Staci Witten

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